Tuesday, 26 January 2021

Life in the slow lane…

Late lies the wintry sun a-bed,
A frosty, fiery sleepy-head;
Blinks but an hour or two ; and then,
A blood-red orange sets again.

From Winter-Time by Robert Louis Stevenson.

Hibernation is a state of minimal activity and metabolic slow-down. And I wouldn’t say that was quite us, but our life just now does have a definite focus on slowing things down…Simple things taking much, much longer than normal. Living life more gently - no rush, no pressure. There’s been more baths, more games, more jigsaws, more talk. 

And like the last lockdown - learning to be together as a family and finding our own pace has been something which has its own inherent joy. We’ve tried to pace our life more mindfully, and we’ve let that pace be our guide.

The days may still be short and cold, and the restrictions on activity still in full flow, but since the end of December the weather has been predominantly crisp, clear and frosty. We’ve had a bit of snow and a bit of rain but mainly – the skies have been blue and the temperature been between 4 and minus 4 degrees. So as our weekdays and weekends blend more into a seamless, blurred week the festive rhythm has merged into the new winter rhythm of a January lockdown in the slow lane.

But it’s not been all go-slow, we’ve also tried to make the most of what we have, using the short days, the fine, frosty weather and the local places on offer. Tanya the Brave has continued her weekly outdoor early morning swims in a local loch…to the point where its been too icy to be actually able to get in. I’ve tried running the country paths when I can but that’s also been limited a bit by ice. And we’ve also adventured out as a family – still discovering new spots around East Dunbartonshire – a new ruined estate and some waterfalls a couple of highlights.

So its not quite been hibernation, more rather life in the slow lane. But is that a bad thing? For the umpteenth time in the last year I guess I’ve reached the conclusion definitely not. There's much to learn and be grateful for in the midst of all this.

Game of Uno #768

The Bunnybull by Niomi aged nearly 6

Ice Queens

Linn Cave I

Linn Cave II

Early morning bravery

Swimming on the ice

Sunrise on the morning jog


Thursday, 14 January 2021

The Festive Rhythm...

Dear Santa...

Happy New 'New' Year! And there we have it....2020 ending and 2021 beginning. The transition from one to the other passing in traditional Covid style with a Zoom call style celebration. Who'd have thought it!

So a quick round up of what was for us, as was for many, a somewhat quieter festive season this year. 

A week before Christmas everything was still on track. But then St Nicola and Bad Boris altered our plans by effectively cancelling the Southern Rookes and Grandad Rooke from coming to stay. So at the eleventh hour we were left with one large turkey (for 2 pescatarian adults and 2 tiny kids), a cheese mound to see us through Brexit and beyond, gravlax, puddings and plenty more. Hmmm...what could we do but rise to the challenge and tuck in!

Still, it wasn't the same. Despite our best Zooming efforts it didn't have the same buzz. That said, the slightly more quiet time did give us a different perspective on Christmas, and I did spend less time cooking and more time eating. 

We were also very lucky - the weather was crisp, cold and snowy. We've had 10 months of practising how to all get along locked down as a family. And we have plenty of friends who we could all individually meet up with outdoors. So that meant only one thing....Sledging!

So we found a daily rhythm - slow start - play with gifts - cheese for lunch - sledging - festive dinner - early bed - and repeat...The only break in our festive rhythm was my growing an ear that elf's would be proud of and spending the early part of Boxing Day getting some hefty antibiotics. And whether our rhythm sounds like heaven to you or not, it could have been a lot worse. And we all actually had a lovely time and have much to be grateful for...

But Dear Santa....next year could we please have our other Christmas back???

Penguin vs The Elf

Festive Hair

Goldie - the gift of choice from Santa

Snow Fun I

Snow Fun II

Videoclip: You're never too old...

Or you can watch the video by clicking here



Sunday, 20 December 2020

Happy Christmas everyone...

To all our family and friends, near and far....we wish you peace, joy and happiness this festive season. This year has been tough for many reasons, not least because we've hardly seen any of you - but you are always in our thoughts. May 2021 bring a better year for us all.

Lots of love Nigel, Tanya, Emily and Niomi xxx



Tuesday, 15 December 2020

Operation Rainbow…

 
Installation Team (photo by Pamela Marshall)

It’s been a year of Rainbows – and up here we’ve finished it off in style.

My ‘work’ with YourKirky www.yourkirky.com has ended the year on a high. We made local and national press and the film we made of the project was seen by over 7,500 people (grab a tissue). We even got a mention in the Scottish Parliament.

Truly awesome – go team YourKirky…

To view the video (highly recommeded) and spot ALL the Rookes at various points click here

Videclip: Operation Rainbow

To view the article in The National click here


Monday, 30 November 2020

Nothing else for it...

And so with Lockdown Part 2 in mid-flight, most activities cancelled and lots of shops shut; there really was nothing else for it. It was time to start Christmas early...in November. It used to be that Christmas didn't start till after my birthday in mid- December, but kids put paid to that. Then it didn't really start until the first weekend in December, but now Covid's put paid to that. So after checking that the festive calendar really still didn't have anything in it, we just got the boxes out and went for it. It was a monster weekend of Christmas. The Christmas Pork Pie, the Christmas Pudding, decorations - homemade and bought, paper chains, music, lights, The Tree....phew - we did it all.

And with 26 days till Christmas, let's hope we haven't crested our festive wave too early...😟

Paper chains

The First Decoration

Decorating bliss

Mummy was really in the spirit

Allegedly...



Videoclip: The 2020 Lights Switch On



Videoclip: Stir-up Sunday

Kids creations...The stuff of nightmares

The Tree


Thursday, 12 November 2020

Learning to read...

Loving her stories

Sometimes your kids can just blow you away. A few weeks ago Niomi did that to me by reading her first book. You might think that's normal for kids in P1 and to an extent you'd be right. But for us it's definitely a significant milestone. Nearly 4 years ago Niomi came into our lives really finding it tricky to make herself understood and for us to understand her. Since then we've all worked hard...lots and lots of stories, word games, puzzles, chatting and singing. But in particular she's worked especially hard. All through the pandemic she's practised her letters and numbers, gradually moving on to sounds. It's never come easy for her and now all that hard work just paid off. She's doing great. And alongside that she just got a great report from her teacher saying how well she's settling in! I'm so proud of her...Well done Niomi!

Videoclip: Learning to Read...



Monday, 2 November 2020

Witches and Wizards...

Despite the current slow pace of life, it's been a really eventful few weeks. Obviously my Mum's passing has been sad news, but there's been plenty of good things happening too. Autumn is for me the season of magic, mystery and strange goings on. As a young guy I always remember this time of year for foggy, crisp nights and locking myself away, immersed in Lord of the Rings - emerging after a week or so and seeing Elves, Ents and Hobbits everywhere.

As a slightly older young guy, I still hold with these memories, only now I live in a soggier Scotland and to find the time to read Lord of the Rings would take a year not a week. But still, despite this, we've been having visitations recently - Witches and Wizards have graced us with their presence in a range of differing guises.

First up was High Witch Nana and Grand Wizard Baba - appearing at an appropriate social distance from Banchory. It could potentially have been a tricky visit - all outdoors with restrictions on cafe and restaurant opening. But with some careful logistics, a dash of fire from the firedrum, and a sprinkle of decent(ish) weather we had a lovely time. Although by game of hide and seek in the garden No.83 I think they were more than entitled to fly back home.

Then came Halloween, and with no guising this year, Mummy got to eat all the sweets without fear of leaving children candy-less. Still we practised inside guising either side of the lounge door...the jokes not improving but the weather was defintiely more clement. Our pumpkin offering this year was decidely poor, but no sooner had it been put out than the doorbell rang - a surprise offering from the Witch O' The Dell left on the doorstep. For background info -  a year or so ago - Emily and Niomi started getting notes and presents from a good, friendly witch called the Witch O' The Dell. And this year she most certainly arrived in the nick of time to save our Halloween. But just who she is, who knows!?!

And finally, not least was a not so little Emily's 8th Birthday. Bless her. Restrictions don't make for the easiest of outdoor birthday parties but Mummy was determined we would have a party - and, after some hasty last minute re-scheduling to avoid rain - party we did. Harry Potter is all the rage (we're on the second reading of all the books) - and so a Hogwarts themed party was the order of the day. Wand choosing, broomstick making, Chamber of Secrets, Potions lessons - there was even a game of Quidditch! All hosted by Professor McGonigal and Mr Jolivander (Mr Olivander's younger and decidely better looking brother). Phew...it was quite an event. And all topped up with a generous smattering of Potter themed presents and a few old craft and unicorn favourites. Happy Birthday Emily!

Making hay whilst the sun nearly shone

Sporting new dresses on The Antonine Wall

Al fresco fish and chips with the Grand Wizard Baba...

...and the High Witch Nana

Puny Pumpkin

Witch O' The Dell showing how pumpkins are really done

Last stop from Platform 9¾

Magic in the air with a double rainbow

Quidditch cake

Mr Jolivander

Videoclip: Broomsticks and Sorting Hats

Happy 8th Birthday!!