Monday, 22 January 2018

Hearing voices…

Voice

noun: voice; plural noun: voices
1. the sound produced in a person's larynx and uttered through the mouth, as speech or song.
2. a particular opinion or attitude expressed.

verb: voice; 3rd person present: voices; past tense: voiced; past participle: voiced; gerund or present participle: voicing
1. express in words.
2. phonetics - utter (a speech sound) with resonance of the vocal cords (e.g. b, d, g, v, z ).

It's a well known fact amongst parents that sometimes your child can actually hear your voice but, bizarrely, they’re just not listening. In fact, by pointedly ignoring your orders, they’re accomplishing two of their most important goals: testing your authority and asserting their independence. Your child is caught up in the excitement – and frustration – that comes with their growing autonomy. They just want to explore their own world and test their own limits. At the same time they’re struggling to learn how to control their actions, impulses, and feelings. This is the story of 2 to 3 year olds and getting their voice heard.

The girl in question

Niomi happy as she is, is no stranger to any of this. She is curious and exploratory but not always with any due regard to safety. She is independent and wants to do everything herself but with no regard to how hard it is or how long it may take. And she is determined to carry out a task until it all gets too much and she just becomes frustrated. It’s hard being nearly 3. Coupled into all this is she’s still really learning to communicate – so she doesn’t always have the words to explain to us, or maybe us adults just don’t understand her (that’s sounds like teenagers too). Ah, the joys of it all. Still, it can be very cute and fun watching her develop her voice both in words and feelings.

Videolip: No dress

 Doing it her own way

 Mischief makers 1

Mischief makers 2

And then there are other ways to capture people’s voices, opinions and attitudes; and January has seen me wholeheartedly get stuck into finding out what the people of Kirkintilloch want from their town. Through my involvement in Kirkintilloch Community Council we’ve developed an online survey and are hosting a whole series of community conversations from 25th to 27th January and into February. A shameless plug I know but please, if you’re reading this and are living or have lived in Kirkintilloch then please fill this out or come to an event. Details can be found at:


And if all that wasn't enough...we've celebrated our first family birthday, toilet trained Niomi, been to Edinburgh to stay with friends, been buried under a foot of snow and generally been far too busy in January. Phew...but ain't it great to use your voice!


First family birthday


Wednesday, 10 January 2018

Snowflakes, Stars and Santa...

Christmas this year was full of joy and magic. From the moment I arrived home from work on the 22nd to find the house full of a parliament of Rookes, to the moment the last of that parliament left, we had fun and laughter. And that is what Christmas is all about.

There was chatting and games, trips out and carol singing, jigsaws and laughter. Much food was consumed and much drink supped. Santa came and presents were opened. Stars were given out as rewards for achievement, good behaviour and general niceness. And then there came snow. What better way to top off the perfect Christmas than a sprinkling of the white stuff. Magic.

It truly was my best Christmas ever.

And beyond that there was Hogmanay - with more neighbourly parties and first footing craziness. 3 parties in under 24 hours. I've not done that since I was very young!

I was left with a very warm glow from it all, and a determination to smile because it happened not cry because it was over.

Rooke stars (minus a sleeping star)

Videoclip: A neighbourly band of carolers

Santa's little helper star 

The Cranium winning stars

 2 snowflake stars

Videoclip: Sledging star

 Excited star 1

 Excited star 2

Snowgirls stars 

It seems like everyone enjoyed it!

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